The Perfect London Tantric Masseuse

The only way to master perfection is by embracing the imperfect.

You may be thinking to yourself: what makes her so special that I should go and visit her? Perhaps what most particularly qualifies me in my own case is the inordinate amount of time, amounting to many thousands of hours, I have spent thinking about each and every encounter I have in my bed scooping up another body, or over a glass of wine penetrating different minds. In doing so, I have come to a good understanding of what clients generally look for in a tantric masseuse.

Being the perfect tantric masseuse is not about being liked by most clients, or even getting the top reviews in London. Finding the perfect tantrika is about clearly identifying what you need and finding the lady who meets your expectations. To begin with, what are your physical preferences in a woman? Curvy, slim, athletic? Petite, tall, shorter than you, what if taller? Short, long hair? Breast size, natural, or you prefer to look into the overall proportion of the breasts and nipples and perkiness? Skin tone, Caucasian, dark-skinned, black? What physical attributes attract you the most in a woman? Breasts, rear, legs, face? Perfection does not exist as such, so what quality would turn you on enough to compensate for you not being physically attracted by some other specific feature? Young, mature, older than you? Do you have a fetish and are obsessed with physical details, feet, hands, arms, eyes? Tantric masseuses come in all shapes and forms, especially in London, where the diversity is overwhelmingly tempting. As a general rule, I have found that men get more turned on by a woman who looks nice enough but has the right sexual and mental attitude. Only men who are addicted to tantric masseuses get fixated on physical qualities, perhaps because they have experienced so much diversity in this respect that they keep looking for ‘unknown territory’ so as to keep ticking boxes of ‘new experiences’. (If you are interested in sex addiction to tantric masseuses don't miss my next posts).

Is there anything beyond physical attraction when it comes to looking for that perfect tantric woman? Surely there is. Countless of reviews of tantric masseuses in London attest that. Many clients resort to reading reviews in order to minimise disappointment when meeting a tantrika. The aim of reviews is to provide accurate and authentic information about providers and, for many clients, this is a valuable insight.

Sexual services

In narrowing down the specifics of sexual services, I would like to state how I describe mine. I engage in the main following activities: tantric massage, tantric feet reflexology, Reiki, body to body massage, lingam massage, deep French kissing, giving and receiving unprotected oral sex—protected on request, cum in mouth, rimming (giving and receiving), prostate massage (protected when internal), protected penetration—I have a policy where I automatically discard clients who dare to ask if I provide bare back. My thinking is, if the client actually looks for that type of service, it is very likely he will have found someone in the past. I do not want to be involved with anyone of that kind for my sexual health’s sake. Please, note that if a particular service you are looking for has not been listed here it means that I am not interested in offering it.

Sexual attitude

Here we enter a realm of different approaches. There are numerous terms to refer to different sexual attitudes in the sex work industry. Girlfriend experience, porn star, dominatrix, submissive, tantric experience, erotic massage, role play, threesome, etc. Do any of these labels correspond to your search? I call myself a tantric escort, which, although a fairly recent term, is becoming increasingly popular. I provide erotic massages as a form of initiation to a tantric experience. In order to practice tantric sex, you should be aware that it takes time, and, therefore, you should be able to give yourself the opportunity to meet me on several occasions so we can together embark on that journey. In addition to this, you need to have a genuine interest in meditative sex. However, if you would like to explore sex from a deep sensual approach, there is no need to become a regular client.

Connection

The ultimate perfect London tantrika for you would certainly meet all the criteria discussed above. However, if you want to move beyond a meeting of bodies to a meeting of minds, stimulate yourself intellectually and emotionally with the exquisite company of the perfect tantric masseuse over lunch, dinner, during a holiday, the only way you can truly find that lady is by taking risks and trying your luck. No reviews will be good enough to describe the right chemistry that will make that happen.

‘Don’t fall in love with a woman who reads, a woman who feels too much, a woman who writes...

Don’t fall in love with an educated, magical, delusional, crazy woman. Don’t fall in love with a woman who thinks, who knows what she knows and also knows how to fly; a woman sure of herself.

Don’t fall in love with a woman who laughs or cries making love, knows how to turn her spirit into flesh; let alone one that loves poetry (these are the most dangerous), or spends half an hour contemplating a painting and isn't able to live without music.

Don’t fall in love with a woman who is interested in politics and is rebellious and feel a huge horror from injustice. One who does not like to watch television at all. Or a woman who is beautiful no matter the features of her face or her body.

Don’t fall in love with a woman who is intense, entertaining, lucid and irreverent. Don’t wish to fall in love with a woman like that. Because when you fall in love with a woman like that, whether she stays with you or not, whether she loves you or not, from a woman like that, you never come back.’

Martha Rivero-Garrido

I invite you to watch a video of myself below. I hope it reminds you that I am still waiting for you. Anticipation is the erection of the senses.

Nerea, an Independent London Tantric Masseuse